4/22/2004 10:36:50 PM
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me
be honest in from the get go, cause
you can still be romantic or sexual
and not transfer diseases, if her
really is attracted to you and you
tell him it won't matter...better to
be safe than sorry...do you want to
have the std and the friend or loss
the friend because of the std!!!
Shouldn't be a hard choice...I married
the guy i had to tell the truth!!!
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4/23/2004 2:31:45 PM
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original poster
I've already told him once but to get
the nerve up to tell him again is that
hard part.
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4/23/2004 8:28:18 PM
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Craig
say nothing, have fun. Stop worrying.
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4/24/2004 5:17:51 PM
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To be honest this guy sounds like a
slezeball (sp.). I mean you guys
havn't even met and he wants to have
sex with you, like that is all there
is. Who knows you may not even be
sexually attracted to him. My best
advice is to go to coffee, go on a
couple dates, movies, minature golf,
dinner. Then if you are attracted to
him decide from there. I think you
guys should meet face to face and get
to know eachother in that aspect
before you get involved.
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4/24/2004 5:22:01 PM
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continued
I would also hope that you will
discuss his past partners with him,
and get the low down on any std's he
might have. That would be the best
time to bring it up. Just to be fair
to him you should tell him again (you
don't know if he's a blackout drinker
and doesn't remember). Obviously
something has kept him calling and he
may be a real good guy, it's kind of a
cute story. Well anyways good luck.
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4/24/2004 11:05:32 PM
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Original Poster
I know a lot about his sexual history
already- everytime he has sex with
someone I hear all about it- and the
same goes for me-We are pretty open
with each other. It is just that kind
of relationship. I tell him things I
don't even tell my closest friends who
live in state and have known me my
whole life. He is easy to talk too.
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4/29/2004 10:49:38 AM
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you havent even met and he's talking
about having sex with you? I think
that should put up a red flag-do you
want to get involved with someone just
for sex? Cuz that sounds like thats
all he's lookin for. It is always
easier to talk to someone over the
phone, things may change once its in
person. If u r going to meet it should
be in a public place where he cant
take advantage or hurt you. He may
sound like a nice guy but please be
very careful cuz u never know...
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4/29/2004 10:32:33 PM
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orignal poster
To the poster above. That is exactly
why I haven't met him. When I talked
to him about me being nervous to meet
him for those reasons he said we
didn't have to have sex - which is
totoally cool if that were the case
but he still will ask every once in
awhile. Not like all the time , or
even that often but there are times he
does ask.
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5/1/2004 1:16:53 PM
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Jeff
I would see no problem at all with you
having sex with him, and not saying
anything more about the HPV. Just
strap on the dildo, bend him over, and
really let him have it!
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5/4/2004 1:14:40 PM
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asks to meet u or asks about having
sex?
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5/4/2004 9:27:17 PM
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orginal poster
to the poster above this- both really,
I have told him in the past that I
wasn't up for saying if I'd sleep with
him AND he'd have to see how it went
before I decided and he was fine with
that but he has asked if I would sleep
with him. Common he is a guy with
hormones-I can't say I blame him for
asking it has been nearly three years
of calling and sometimes personal
conversations.
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5/19/2004 10:26:40 AM
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dhalli lamer
if he says he doesnt care that you have
an std he probably has them as well.
and he also probably lies about hsis
exual experiences, no swinger would
want so badly to meet a stranger unless
he knew he was infected and u are also.
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5/22/2004 1:30:32 AM
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hpv is so common he prolly has it
anyhow. there is no way for men to know
unless they develop warts, which is
less common im men than women.
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